I'm scared

I am a 32 year old stay at home mom with a troubled pre-teen stepson, an emotionally challenged adopted 13 year old, 3 month old twin boys, a terrible 2's - 2 year old, and a scaredy cat, know it all, smart mouthed-3 year old daughter.

All day and night this child hollers she's scared. She's scared of Mickey Mouse, she's scared of the monsters. I don't know whats real or whats fake. Then the night comes and she's even more scared. I believe she's doing it to get attention, seeing as though I have all of these kids, she's trying to draw the attention to herself. But sometimes it seems soooo real, like she's running for her life. Maybe she's acting, maybe she wants all of my attention and not the limited attention she gets or maybe she's really scared....hmmm. What do you think?

The art of Communication

Okay, it's been a minute since I have written, but now I have plenty of time to do so. It's a good way to keep the communication going; it's a craft that I love and it's an outlet. Oftentimes, we fail to learn the art of communication. We think we know how to talk to people, what to say to people and we really want them to hear everything we say and agree. But that is not how communication is designed. It is designed for one person to talk as another listens and the listener must also hear and comprehend. Sometimes a response is required and sometimes you just have to be a good listener. Think back to a time where you had a conversation with someone and they poured their heart out to you, but the feedback wasn't what you expected and the art of communication 101 was not followed. Thus, your communication turned into a heated debate...and all you really had to do or wanted the other person to do was...LISTEN!!

Married to a gay man

Now I don't usually get caught up in the hype, but after Stella got her groove back, she found out millions of dollars later, that her heart throb was flaming. I mean into other men. Now a day late and soon to be thousands of dollars short (I don't think she's a millionaire), here is the lovely Start Jones with Mister Lover and I mean that literally. He is loving Mister and not his so called wife. What the heck was the point in getting married, if you can't have all of the perks, I mean. Is she leading a double life, are they swingers...WTF....oh my...I just had to get this off my chest.

It's just nasty...We fall down, but do get up...hopefully the picture is attached for you to view with your own eyes, now I am not judging but he looks like a queen to me. They look like best buds instead of husband and wife, let me know what you think....

Non-Believers on the Job

Somewhere in Ecclesiastes, it states there is a time and a place for everything....well in a meeting this morning, somehow the subject came up about scheduling conflicts with our lunches and brunches later so that the church folk (most popular for this market) have time to get out of church and get there. Where out of the mouth of the Department Head is ...."where there's the problem, we don't have to change our times, tell em' not to go to church...they can pray anywhere." While it is true that you don't have to go to church to pray, those that do attend go for more than prayer. In the workplace where discrimination is supposed to be non-existent, I find it so hard to believe that people in powerful places, have not yet learned how to shut up and they constantly keep putting their foots in their mouth!!!

Okay, so as boring as meetings are, what should a child of God do other than pray in the workplace??

HELP?

EVER FELT LIKE SCREAMING...EVER JUST WANTED TO SLEEP...EVER FELT LIKE YOU WERE "JAMAICAN" WORKING TREE (THREE) JOBS, THE MAID, THE REAL JOB AND THE CARETAKER...ALONG WITH THE FINANCIAL MANAGER, THE LOVER, THE HEALER...WOW.... I AM NOT COMPLAINING I LOVE IT, IT'S JUST A LOT....

I AM JUST TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO JUGGLE THIS LIFE...ANY SUGGESTIONS?

IT TROUBLE.

OKAY, TODAY HAS BEEN THE DAY FOR COMPUTER HELL. I MEAN EVERY PC I HAVE BEEN ON I HAVE HAD TROUBLES WITH. I AM POSTING BLOGS, AWAITING COMMENTS FROM FOLKS, I KNOW WOULDN'T MIND SHARE BED ROOM SECRETS AND SOMEHOW, COMMENTS CAN'T NOT BE POSTED. THEN AT WORK, I CAN'T EMAIL. HERE I AM USING MY OWN PERSONAL EMAIL TO SEND CONTRACTS, PAYMENTS AND RECEIPTS.....WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON WITH THE PC'S AND THE IT DEPARTMENT.


JUST NEEDED TO VENT.

SATISFYING YOUR NEEDS

WOW....I WAS LISTENING TO STRAWBERRY LETTER ON THE RADIO THIS MORNING FROM THE STEVE HARVEY MORNING SHOW. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO LISTEN REGULARLY, YOU KNOW WHAT THE COOKIE IS, FOR THOSE WHO DON'T... THE COOKIE IS THAT VALUABLE FEMALE ORGAN THAT MOST MEN CRAVE MINUTE AFTER MINUTE.

OKAY SO, THE TOPIC WAS KEEPING MY COOKIE IN THE FAMILY. I MEAN, WHEN I FINALLY HEARD WHAT THE LETTER WAS REFERRING TOO (TO READ VISIT WWW.STEVEHARVEY.COM GO TO THE MORNING SHOW'S STRAWBERRY LETTER), I WAS FLOORED. THIS WOMAN IS "HAPPILY MARRIED" BUT SLEEPING WITH HER BROTHER-IN-LAW, WHOM IS ALSO MARRIED. I MEAN, THIS IS CLOSE TO INCEST AND IS INSANELY WRONG. NOW I KNOW WE ALL HAVE NEEDS AND WHEN YOU GET MARRIED AND HAVE CHILDREN, IT'S EVEN HARDER TO GIVE YOUR MATE THAT QUALITY TIME. AND SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO RESORT TO QUICKIES AND OTHER METHODS OF SATISFYING THE URGE, BUT YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE'S NEXT OF KIN. OOOOH THAT IS SOOOOO LOW.

I KNOW THERE ARE TIMES THAT I JUST DON'T FEEL LIKE IT AND OTHERTIMES WHEN I CAN BE A NYMPHO, BUT NEVER THE URGE TO SLEEP AROUND, EVEN IF YOU ARE AS FINE AS MORRIS CHESTNUT OR TERRENCE HOWARD. I SAID MY VOWS BEFORE GOD AND THAT MEANS ALOT TO ME. SO THIS LADY REALLY NEEDS TO CHECK HER MORALS AND VALUES. SHE KNEW HOW HE WAS IN THE BEDROOM, SO IT WAS UP TO HER TO TELL HIM WHAT SHE WANTED TO FEEL ..... MOST WOMEN- WHEN THEY GET MARRIED OPT FOR SOMETHING DIFFERENT OTHER THAN SEX, SO THE EXPLORATION BEGINS.

MARRIAGE IS A TIME FOR SEXUAL EXPLORATION. NOW IS THE TIME TO GET REALLY CREATIVE, SO THAT BOTH WILL BE SATISFIED. WOMEN LIKE FOR THEIR EMOTIONS TO BE TAPPED INTO, THEY LIKE FOR THEIR MATES TO REALLY PAY ATTENTION TO THE CALL OF THEIR BODIES. THEY WANT THEIR MEN TO BE MIND READERS IN THE BEDROOM. AND MEN JUST BECAUSE YOU TOUCH A CERTAIN SPOT AND IT CAUSES A FIERY REACTION, DON’T JUST COMPLETELY FOCUS ON THAT ONE SPOT, TEASE A LITTLE AND CONTINUE EXPLORING. IT'S CALLED FOREPLAY.....AND IT LEADS TO EXPLOSIVE ORGASMS. .....

SO INSTEAD OF SHARING YOUR COOKIE WITH AN OUTSIDER, LET'S FIND MORE CREATIVE WAYS TO KEEP THE COOKIE IN THE HOUSE HOLD...DO SHARE SOME SECRETS TO SUCCESSFUL SEX IN MARRIAGES. AND FEEL FREE TO REMAIN ANONYMOUS.